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Babysitting is one of those things that sound easy until youre actually doing it.

Her stepmom, however, had other plans for her.

No discussion, no compromise, just a royal decree.

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But the OP, being a self-respecting teenager with actual plans, said nope, not today.

Surprise, surprise, the OP didnt, because, well, she said she wouldnt.

Her 22-year-old stepbrother was home the entire time, gaming away.

Woman holding a baby in a towel, smiling warmly in a cozy room with a map on the wall.

And dear old dad?

He had also left the house after both the OP and the stepmom.

The OP really had no idea the baby was being left behind.

Text about a 16-year-old girl debating not babysitting her newborn stepbrother.

After all, shes 16, of course shes going to choose hanging out with friends over babysitting.

If you know, you know.

She told us that parents often dont realize theyre engaging in parentification.

Text exchange about a 16-year-old planning a run, refusing to babysit stepbrother despite stepmom’s request.

If they were aware of the weight they are placing on their children, they would likely stop.

We asked Paterson why some parents resort to parentification.

Sometimes, external factors like financial struggles can contribute.

Teen girl using laptop, adult woman standing nearby looking concerned, highlighting teen’s choice to go out instead of babysitting.

We wanted to know what the most common effects are on kids who experience parentification.

We asked Paterson how parents can better balance responsibilities without putting too much on their kids.

Thats not teaching responsibility, thats just bad parenting.

Text discussing a 16-year-old criticized for not babysitting, resulting in parental reprimands after a night out.

Check out the results:

Text excerpt about a 16-year-old defending plans to go out, highlighting family disagreement over babysitting duties.

Text questioning instructions about babysitting responsibility in household.

Teenager on phone call outside, discussing babysitting plans.

Text response discussing inheritance, financial independence, and babysitting responsibilities.

16YO explains why they went out instead of babysitting, mentioning stepbrother and stepdad were at home.

Man watching TV and eating a burger, relaxed at home while stepdad and stepbrother are present.

Text from a 16-year-old about not babysitting, mentioning stepbrother and stepdad were at home.

Text about a 16-year-old explaining lack of babysitting habit, mentioning excitement for a meeting, and stepbrother care.

Teenager facing criticism, surrounded by pointing fingers, representing babysitting responsibilities conflict.

Quote about babysitting conditions; 16YO explains requirements, stressing notice and payment terms.

Comment discussing responsibility for babysitting stepbrother at home.

Reddit comment discussing the issue of a 16-year-old not babysitting while family members were home.

Online comment questioning a mom’s responsibility when a 16YO went out instead of babysitting.

Comment on 16YO going out, suggesting checking if grandpa and mom left house without telling.

Reddit comment about babysitting and family responsibility.

Text message criticizing biased gender expectations about a 16YO babysitting over stepbrother and stepdad.