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Putting together aweddingis, by itself, a pretty big task.

Readers shared their advice and some similar experiences.

But remember, its not just cost.

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The internet is already littered with stories of couples whocheaped out.

As their kids grow older and become more independent, opportunities for direct involvement become rarer.

Of course, from a certain perspective it can really just seem like parentalentitlement.

Woman on phone looking frustrated about wedding menu mishap.

Finding a balance where parents can contribute without overshadowing the couples own vision is essential.

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Password protect advice for vendors, with a couple discussing their carefully curated wedding menu for Napa Valley.

Text detailing a wedding menu with butter poached lobster, Wagyu short ribs, and truffle risotto highlights protection importance.

Text describing a couple’s discovery of MIL changing their wedding menu.

Text discussing a wedding menu change, highlighting password protection’s importance.

Chef in a kitchen preparing a dish, illustrating a lesson on “Password Protect Everything” for a wedding menu.

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Text about reinstating a wedding menu after changes by MIL, highlighting the importance of password protection.

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Text advising to password protect everything during wedding planning to prevent surprises, like a meddling MIL changing the menu.

Sneaky MIL Thinks She Has Changed Couple’s Wedding Menu, Is About To Be Surprised At The Ceremony

Sneaky MIL Thinks She Has Changed Couple’s Wedding Menu, Is About To Be Surprised At The Ceremony

Text exchange discussing a MIL interfering with a wedding menu, highlighting the need to password protect everything.

Reddit comments discussing a MIL’s interference with a wedding menu, highlighting password protection advice.

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Reddit comment discussing a mother-in-law’s reaction to a wedding menu plot, highlighting password protection.

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Comment discussing MIL’s preference for simple wedding menu options, highlighting a humorous take on the situation.

Reddit comment discussing the need to password protect after MIL changes a wedding menu.

Text conversation about password protecting everything to prevent MIL from meddling in wedding plans.

Reddit comment about MIL issues with wedding menu, highlighting boundary disrespect and future advice for the couple.

Text comment expressing relief about recovering original wedding menu choices.

Reddit comment discussing a humorous response to a mother-in-law’s wedding menu interference, highlighting a lesson learned.

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Reddit comment about steak and lobster on wedding menu.

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Reddit comment discussing MIL and wedding menu password protection advice.