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Friendsare one of the most precious things people have in their lives.
So, maintaining those friendships is an important task.
Yet, sometimes, people are faced with certain decisions regarding their friendships that might be hard to navigate.
Todays story is an ideal example of this.
A person overheard their friends boyfriend saying awful stuff about her.
The author has said that they didnt have the best feeling about this man.
After all, some people have anatural intuition, which helps them to sense off vibes from certain folks.
Maybe todays author is one of them.
Yet, they decided to keep their suspicions to themselves because the friend seemed happy with this man.
Then, the author overheard her boyfriend talking to a stranger about her.
And lets just say that the spoken words werent the nicest.
For context, this friend of the OPs works in events and marketing for a well-known museum.
To acquire this job, she studied English Literature and Classics atSt AndrewsUniversity in Scotland.
Additionally, she got her masters degree atKings Collegein London.
Apparently, all of this wasnt good enough for her boyfriend.
He proceeded to diminish hereducation, calling it one of those pointless degrees that need banning.
So, hes simply one of thosefinance bros!
Or simply a man who thinks that any profession or activity not related to money isnt worthy.
While finance bros are typically viewed as astereotype, sometimes, reality isnt that far off.
This man is proof of that.
So, they came to Mumsnet to ask for other peoplesadvice.
The consensus there was that the person should tell her.
Some people justified it by saying that if they were in her place, they would want to know.
In fact, they said that if she heard it from someone else, it might affect their friendship.
After all, trust and honesty are one of themain pillarsof friendship.
And in this case, staying silent might damage those pillars.
At the same time, a few Mumsnet users warned the person to tread lightly.
They pointed out that people sometimes tend to get defensive about certain things in their lives, like relationships.
Well, we dont know her friend well enough to speculate how she will react to thenews.
Its better for her to know now than when its too late.
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