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When you love someone, its obvious that you feel like doing everything possible for them.

Folks online commented that OPssisterwas being downright unreasonable in her demands.

During such times, its important to stay calm and reinforce your boundaries without engaging in conflict.

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Dont jeopardize your own well-being or future just to meet family expectations, Prof. Lobo concluded.

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Woman in red sweater studying with books, focusing on education.

Text on image discusses a man’s dilemma about paying for his fiancée’s college but not his sister’s.

Text describing man’s journey from college to financial success amidst family financial demands.

A jar labeled “Education” filled with cash, symbolizing financial burdens in paying for college.

Text discussing a man supporting his fiancée’s college tuition to help her graduate debt-free.

Text from a man about his sister asking him to pay for her college like he does for his fiancée.

Man in brown sweater, woman in beige coat discussing family financial issues, highlighting refusal to act as family ATM.

Text expressing man’s refusal to financially support sister’s college, focusing on building a future with his fiancée instead.

Text block discussing family pressures as a man is urged to pay for sister’s college.

Text expressing a dilemma about being the family ATM.

Man appearing stressed, in casual clothing, representing family ATM financial pressure.

Reddit comment about prioritizing fiancé as family over financial demands from sister for college.

Reddit comment about prioritizing family with fiancée over paying sister’s college tuition.

Reddit comment discussing refusal to fund sister’s college education, emphasizing building a future with fiancée.

Reddit comment advising against being the family ATM, supporting self-reliance.

Reddit comment criticizing a sister’s demand for her brother to pay for her college, defending his financial choices.

Text screenshot about not being a family ATM, emphasizing financial boundaries with sister and focusing on fiancée’s future.

Reddit comment discussing financial responsibility to family versus fiancée.

Reddit comment supporting refusal to be the family ATM, stressing self-protection and self-respect.

Text advice on managing finances, refusing to pay for sister’s college like fiancée, suggests scholarships and not co-signing.

Forum post where man refuses to be family’s ATM; prioritizes fiancée’s college over sister’s, sparking debate.

Comment on refusing financial help to family amid college payment demands.

Text from a Reddit comment discussing family finances and the refusal to pay sister’s college.