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Most of us would do anything for ourfamilies.
But its important to remember not to take advantage of those who extend a hand.
Throwawaythechicken9 was also unsure when shell see her brothers family next.
We usually see each other during major holidays, so maybe then, she shared.
We were also curious what the OP thought about the replies to her post.
Though largely the support and advice did make me feel better.
According toUpJourney, you should be polite and compassionate when explaining why someone cannot stay with you.
Your landlord might not allow guests, or you may simply not have space.
Explain where youre coming from, and provide alternative options instead.
Navigating a situation where a family member has stolen from you isnt any easier either.
Its impossible to know exactly how they will react.
Do you want to ping the authorities?
Cut off communication with the relative?
Or do you simply want to be reimbursed or have the item(s) returned?
And of course, work on preventing this from happening again in the future.
If necessary, change locks and secure your belongings.
And if the relationship is worth maintaining, work on rebuilding your trust in that person.
But apparently, plenty of people have issues with their other in-laws as well.
Readers called out the couple for their behavior and provided advice for the OP
Thanks!
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