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Kidshelping around the house is beneficial.

However, there usually comes a point when they have enough of doing chores for free.

This creates delayed gratification, which helps them to learn the importance of working towards a goal.

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However, research shows that paying children for tasks doesnt really work in the long term.

Bray calls this strategy a two-tier system.

Tier one would include family chores like cleaning rooms or doing dishes.

Teen girl baking Christmas cookies in kitchen using a stand mixer.

These would be considered shared responsibilities, not jobs to be paid for, she explains.

This, of course, depends on each family, as everyones needs are different.

Some parents might choose not to pay for chores at all.

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