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Yogais a mindfulness practice thats supposed to keep you centered and locked into the present moment.
It should never cause stress and tension, but this story begs to differ.
A homeowner lives next door to a yoga teacher who holds her classes in her backyard.
However, she completelydisregarded boundariesand space, continuing her weekend activities even if they spilled onto her neighbors lawn.
The worst part was sheacted entitledwhen the homeowner politely called her out for her intrusion.
This is according to authorSteph Sterner, who also focuses on setting boundaries in relationships.
Sterner admits that it may seem easier to give in and keep the peace.
However, she discourages it, as it may only enable people to show more disrespect in the future.
Before you know it, youll become the official minute-taker at work.
Some people may also show a lack of respect because they simply prioritize getting what they want.
Even if they know better, they will cross the line, regardless of your relationship with them.
The womans disregard for the authors space seemed to have also stemmed from this mindset.
A passive approach involves recognizing that other peoples actions are beyond your control.
How the other person responds to it is completely up to them.
Self-assessment is another passive approach.
OBrien recommends checking in with yourself to see how flexible your boundaries are.
Or are you open to some changes if they will work for the situation?
Meanwhile, setting limits and consequences is a more active approach.
As OBrien points out, you should be clear and vocal about these repercussions.
Part of setting these limits is walking away from the situation.
What do you think?
What should be the authors next move?
Commenters offered their suggestions, a few of which involved some petty revenge
Thanks!
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