And then, theres the wildcard: the recipient.

Our OP thought they were perfect for her fancy friend Mary and her lavish lifestyle.

But instead of gratitude, she got a passive-aggressive side-eye.

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And, instead of appreciation?

Well, she overheard whispers of horror.

In fact, she found it so offensive she was already planning to get rid of the gift.

Woman celebrating with fancy glasses at a party, glamorous setting with colorful balloons and reflections.

Seems reasonable, right?

If someone doesnt want a gift, why not return it to the person who actually wants it?

But Mary wasnt having it.

Text discussing a woman’s dilemma about reclaiming a used birthday gift given to her friend.

I get it; receiving something you wont use is not as much fun as getting something you love.

But that doesnt mean you have to mock the person who gave it to you.

Even if its not your style, you fake it like an Oscar-winning actor and move on.

Text describes woman finding budget-friendly fancy glasses at an estate sale for a friend.

Regifting is totally acceptable if you know for a fact the person wants or needs the gift.

That vintage crystal glassware?

It probably witnessed countless toasts, celebrations, and maybe even a dramatic breakup.

Three fancy glasses filled with champagne, elegantly arranged for a celebration.

Lets be real; our OP did nothing wrong.

Its not her fault Mary reacted like she had been handed a lump of coal instead of stunning glassware.

What do you think of this story?

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Would you have asked for the gift back, or just let it go?

Drop your thoughts below!

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