A mom ended up going viral onTikTokafter she decided to throw a less-than-traditional birthday for her one-year-old.

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Number one its at 9:30am.

Its only an hour and a half long.

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I literally put 9:30am to 11am on the invitation.

I want you all to know, I dont want you at my house all day.

Im giving you a set time.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

And yeah, the end time yo leave my house on time, my child needs to nap.

Its at 9:30 in the morning, c’mon eat breakfast before you come.

I will have some snacks and thats it.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

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Im not doing games.

Im not doing anything, really.

Ill put the Pickler triangle and the trampoline up outside and thatll be that.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Were not doing games.

I am not spending money on this.

Were doing a Harry Potter-themed birthday party for her.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Her name is Hazel Paige, so HP.

Im a big Harry Potter nerd, like its a whole thing.

And then I said if you feel inclined to bring something, consider $5.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Because were trying to remodel our backyard.

We need to redo… Our backyard is a train wreck.

Bring us five bucks to help us redo our backyard.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Thats what were asking.

But she does not need anything.

And I am very picky.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

I dont want you to buy s**t for my kids.

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Also, were not serving alcohol.

I know its pretty normal to serve booze at kids birthday parties these days.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Like, we did it our sons first birthday party and second birthday party.

We had a frickin taco bar and margaritas for our sons 2nd birthday party.

But we dont drink.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

So we do that for other people.

But its 9:30 in the morning.

Im not even going to buy champagne.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

There will be juice.

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And Im not doing cake.

It is, again, 9:30 in the morning.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

My son is a no-red-dye kid.

I think he might have an allergy to it.

Yeah, thats what were doing, because shes not gonna remember it.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

She doesnt need anything.

Just asnaming conventionsare different from place to place, so are the ways we celebrate.

As Rachel mentions in this TikTok, a one-year-old will really not remember any of this.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

Some might ask why have a party at all, but why not?

Its just a nice excuse to socialize, have some food and just enjoy ones time.

This is why Rachels party-plan makes so much more sense, as its designed around the parents.

“Remodel Our Back Yard”: Mom Begs Guests To Not Bring Any Gifts For Her Daughter’s 1st Birthday

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