Some couples spend years together, only to split up when big life decisions come knocking at the door.
After three years together in New Zealand, hes decided they should move toIndia.
She loves him, but the cultural differences and lifestyle changes feel overwhelming.
Now, shes torn between love and personal freedom.
Hes promised her a car and a teachingjob, but the language barrier and isolation worry her.
OPs past visits to India have been challenging.
Living in aruralarea, she couldnt go anywhere alone and had to follow strict cultural expectations.
While OP respects her husbandsculture, she fears losing her individuality and independence.
She cries often, wondering if shes being selfish or simply standing up for herself.
Shes since turned to netizens for advice.
Hes also completely ignoring the fact that he and OP are in a cross-culturalrelationshipthat requires mutual respect to navigate.
So, whats the best way forward for the couple?
We went looking for answers.
Considering her current state of anxiety, it seems unlikely shell be giving up her freedom any time soon.
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Bored Pandareached out to psychologistDr.
Deborah Heckerto get her take on the situation.
Listen empathically to each others viewpoints.
Be willing to compromise and adapt.
Be patient as you work through the challenges.
Check out the results:
