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You know how some people say, Whats mine is yours?
Its one thing to borrow a sweater, but yourwedding gown?
Thats a whole new level.
Each one of them picked an outfit they would want to fit into again.
A pretty reasonable goal, right?
Yes, thats right, May wanted to wear her friends wedding dress down the aisle.
Now, asking someone to give you their wedding dress is no small ask.
Its not like May needed to borrow a blender or a pair of earrings.
This was a dress that Lucy had customized and tailored to fit her unique body shape and style.
You know what that meansalterations, and a lot of them.
Plus, she had plans for that dress as part of her post-baby weight loss journey.
Seems reasonable, right?
Because, apparently, everyones life was supposed to revolve around Mays big day.
But heres the thing: it was not just about the dress.
It was about boundaries and respect just because youre getting married doesnt mean youre entitled to someone elses possessions.
And Lucy made her boundaries very clear, only her friend decided to pretend like she didnt see them.
When people cross those lines, its a sign they might not respect your needs or feelings.
Expertssay that Setting healthy boundaries in friendships can help you protect your identity and personal space.
It can also prevent others from taking advantage of you or limiting what you want to do.
After all, true friendships should be built on mutual understanding, not emotional manipulation.
What do you think of this story?
Was the mom-to-be a jerk for not allowing her friend to wear her wedding dress?
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