But what happens if certain circumstances change?

Does this agreement require altering too?

Whenredditors Choresforpaypartner considered taking timeoff work, they were quickly presented with one condition.

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Unhappy with this ultimatum, the partner refused to be their servant, causing AITAH drama to ensue.

Miro Gudelsky, who kindly agreed to answer some of our questions about fairly splitting chores with a partner.

Dr. Miro suggests that sometimes it is as easy as figuring out what people are better at.

Person Happy To Have A SAH Partner If They Commit To 40 Hours Of Chores, Drama Ensues

Figure out what makes you happy in regard to household chores.

What annoys you and what you just really dont want to do?

A lot of times, youll find out that your partner is very willing to do those things.

Person Happy To Have A SAH Partner If They Commit To 40 Hours Of Chores, Drama Ensues

verify everyone is on the same page.

You dont want resentment building, she adds.

Certain circumstances should be considered

Of course, certain circumstances might be considered.

Person Happy To Have A SAH Partner If They Commit To 40 Hours Of Chores, Drama Ensues

Dr. Miro says, Everyone needs to pull their weight.

Honestly, it depends on why theyre taking time off work.

Are they taking it for health reasons?

Person Happy To Have A SAH Partner If They Commit To 40 Hours Of Chores, Drama Ensues

Then they probably cant help around the house.

It was found that same-sex couples tend to share more duties and assign various chores based on personal preference.

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