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Attending yourbest friendsweddingcan be almost as exciting as planning your own.

And you better double-check you have some tissues by your side when they walk down the aisle!

Below, youll find the full story that was recentlypostedon the Am I the [Jerk]?

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subreddit, as well as some advice readers left the author.

According toThe Knot, the average cost ofattendinga wedding in 2024 was a whopping $580.

So how much should we really be shelling out for wedding gifts?

Person giving gift at a wedding, considering skipping due to gift expectations.

Isnt your presence at the celebration enough of a present?

For a friend or closer relatives wedding, you might want to spend between $100 to $150.

You might even want to spend more if youre bringing a plus one to the occasion.

Text about financial struggle affecting attendance at best friend’s wedding due to gift expectations.

Theres also a general rule that some guests follow, which is to cover your plate.

But another important factor to consider is how much you might actually afford.

In fact, guests were spending an average of $150 per wedding present in 2023.

Text about skipping best friend’s wedding due to unrealistic gift expectations.

But what about wedding guests who cant afford to purchase a present at all?

Your gift budget is not a reflection of the couples budget, she told HuffPost.

Your gift is reflective of your finances.

Woman sitting on bed, looking stressed over wedding gift expectations, hugging a pillow.

you’re free to always write a meaningful, heartfelt card to the couple.

Thrift stores can also be gold mines for anyone in search of a budget-friendly gift.

Check out the results:

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Person smiles while opening gift, considering skipping wedding over friend’s unexpected gift expectations.

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Reddit comment about weddings valuing love over expensive gifts.

Comment on gift expectations: “$1,000? NTA, that’s crazy.

Comment on Reddit about skipping a wedding due to gift expectations, gathering 2k points.

Reddit comment discussing someone prioritizing materialism over feelings regarding wedding gift expectations.

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Comment criticizes demanding large wedding gifts.

Comments criticizing wedding gift expectations, suggesting etiquette book as a gift for tacky behavior.

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“User comment on skipping wedding over crazy gift expectations.

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Reddit comment criticizing unreasonable gift expectations for a friend’s wedding.

Reddit comment discussing someone’s decision to skip a best friend’s wedding due to gift expectations.

Discussion on wedding gift expectations, highlighting concerns about friendship and budgeting for a $1,000 gift.