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Anengagement ringis a massive deal for many.
It saddened her so much that it drove her to tears as the couplerealizeda few new things about themselves.
Read through the entire story and see how it plays out.
At the same time, she avoids misinterpretation that may make her come off as shallow.
Healthy communication is essential in every relationship.
It deepens intimacy and, as licensed therapistDr.
Jaclyn Gulotta, LMHC,points out, prevents resentment and unhealthy conflict.
Part of achieving healthy communication in a romantic relationship is having the occasional difficult conversation.
However, many people avoid its abrasive nature, and understandably so.
According to Maryland-based psychologistDr.
Helene Brenner, expressing what you want isnt wrong.
What matters most is when to say it.
Saying what you want then happens as a respectful response, not an angry dismissal.
Dr. Brenner also suggests lowering the threat level byshowing empathy, especially toward someone defensive.
As she notes, the person is likely avoiding the truth, especially if they are in the wrong.
They will likely respond more positively if you make them feel safe and do not condemn them.
Fortunately, the couple talked things through despite sharing a few tears.
The woman expressed her feelings without insulting her husband, who owned up to his mistake.
They handled the situation maturely without causing tension.
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