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Gifts are a part of the holidays, but as families change, so do their traditions.

For Nikki and Marty Tomczak, this year marks a shift as they embrace a new approach to Christmas.

At what age did you guys start slowing down on Christmas gifts for them?

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Nikki: So this year, we decided to do a Secret Santa for the first time.

Marty:Oh, but weve been taking good care of them and the bonus kids this entire time.

Nikki:Ill admit, weve been helping with some big things the last couple years.

Woman in a red dress receiving a gift, looking surprised and delighted.

You know, weddings, houses, engagement parties, baby showers, hospital stays, nurseries.

It makes me really happy to see them open 10 things each.

I love to buy them things, but how long can I really continue to do this?

Parents discussing holiday gift choices for adult kids at home.

Marty:Not for me, I say, f**k these kids.

I dont even know what the hell theyre getting anyway.

Nikki: Hes just kidding.

Parents deciding not to buy each kid a gift, discussing changes in a relaxed setting.

Marty:No, Im not.

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