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Planning aweddingcan be stressful.
Especially if its adestination wedding.
Theres lots to think about, and have in place before the big day.
Sometimes the best laid plans go awry.
And if they do, its not always a big deal.
You might get away with forgetting a few small things.
And you might even be forgiven for missing some of the bigger things.
But when you forget about an immediate family member, theres bound to be drama.
One couple learned the hard way when they forgot to include their daughter in their island wedding plans.
The teen alsoclaimsthey lied about why she wasnt at the ceremony.
When she cooked up a plan of her own to seek revenge, she wasnt prepared for the backlash.
She told us she spends most of her time alone in her room.
Having a place to vent and getting advice and affirmation has also been a godsend.
The teen told us she has often felt like a burden.
Whether its about table seating, who gets invited, or what part someone plays, conflict can arise.
And friends or family members might have expectations of where they fit in.
So she was left out of the wedding party.
She says you dont necessarily have to give each family member a role in thewedding party.
There are other ways to make them feel included.
Weiss alsosuggestsplanning something special that honors their role in your relationship.
This can be anything from unity candles, to a tree planting or sand ceremony.
This becomes a many-layered decorative keepsake.
Tackle says its a great idea for a couple who has children or relatives whod like to participate.
I was apologetic and cried.
Parents have only so much energy and attention that they can give to their children.
By the time theyoungest childarrives, parents may be running low on both,readsthe site.
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