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You know that onefamilymember who treats your rules like suggestions?
Yeah, theyre fun.
Some people have a real talent for completely ignoring the concept of personal boundaries.
You set a clear line, and they barrel through it like its not even there.
It almost becomes a family tradition at this point.
How hard can it be to keep the drama under control for one day?
To ensure there was no confusion, our dad even created a symbolic contract for hismomto sign.
Nothing legal, just a good old-fashioned mess up and were out vibe.
And wouldnt you know it?
Not even 2 hours into their visit, Auntie and her crew strolled in like they owned the place.
I dont know about you, but Id be fuming at that point.
Predictably, our dad was furious.
Yeah, because guilt-tripping totally makes up for ignoring someones boundaries.
Even better, the aunts posse chimed in with their usual victim routine, labeling our dad as ungrateful.
Oh, the irony!
Toxic relatives sure love to flip the script when theyre the ones breaking the rules, dont they?
But Dad wasnt having it and he blocked all communication with his parents.
Im pretty sure I would have done the same thing if I were in his shoes.
But really, how many times do you let someone step all over your boundaries before calling it quits?
As far as our dad was concerned, he gave them one rule, they broke it.
Psychologistsagree that teaching children about boundaries is crucial for their development.
When kids understand why boundaries exist, theyre more likely to maintain them in their own relationships.
Its not just about keeping the peace, but also about teaching respect.
I know I dont.
Dealing withtoxic familymembers is no easy task.
Toxic people often thrive on control, guilt, and manipulation.
The trick is to disengage and not give them the emotional reaction theyre fishing for.
Keep your conversations short, dont overshare, and dont be afraid to say no.
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