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There are two types of outingskidsget super excited aboutone with family and one withfriends.

But, when both happen at the same time, choosing between them can be tough.

Keep reading to see how it all unfolded!

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The choices are unlimited, Ruchi shared.

The sky is the limit when it comes to planning.

She recalled one of her most memorable partyrequests.

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We had a client who wanted a full-on K-drama-themed birthday for her teenage daughter.

She went all out, custom decor, themed food, even K-pop-inspired party favors.

Every tiny detail was planned to match the theme perfectly.

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Its no surprise, then, that birthday parties can get expensive.

The budgets today are more flexible than ever, Ruchi pointed out.

It all depends on what they want.

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We spend days, sometimes even months, perfecting every little detail, she continued.

Its not just about balloons and cake anymore.

Of course, not every party has to be a massive event.

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Sometimes, parents prefer a simple, intimate gathering, Ruchi shared.

Simplicity doesnt always mean less effort.

Thats why it can be really disheartening when guests dont show up, especially after so much preparation.

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Imagine planning a special event for eight people, only for six to turn up, Ruchi shared.

Its not just disappointingit can also feel like a waste of time, money, and resources.

Beyond thelogistics, theres also the emotional aspect to consider.

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For children, their birthday is the biggest day of the year, Ruchi added.

So when a friend they were excited to celebrate with doesnt come, it can be a huge letdown.

Thats why things likeRSVP etiquetteand clear communication matter.

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Should the author have stuck to the birthday commitment, or was the family trip the right choice?

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