No matter how common these stories are, its still pretty sad, especially when custody arrangements arent working.
By the time the girl turned 1, he had barely held her.
At that time the girl was only 14 months old.
Now she is 4 years old and he shares 50/50 custody (orjoint custody) of her.
Typically, during it, the care of the child is split between the parents.
It works well as long as both parties comply with the agreed-upon rules.
For example, a court order or an informal agreement.
One time she didnt even let him know when the girl was rushed to theemergency room.
The girl cries anytime he has to bring her to the mom.
Plus, she says she fears shell never see him again.
Heranxietymakes the dad anxious about why she even feels this way.
What if his ex is putting all these thoughts in the daughters head because she is planning something?
After all, the woman doesnt like sharing the child with anyone else, not even her family members.
There could be plenty of reasons why a parent feels possessive of their child.
That means they may heavily rely on other people to properly function.
Sometimes this other person becomes their child.
The OP thinks its something she could do.
He doesnt want the daughter to be hurt in any way due toparental kidnapping.
So, this dad came to Mumsnet to ask if legally she could do that.
They have split custody, but he is not sure if that would stop her.
Others just felt sad for him.
At the same time, our interviewee gave an actual legal advice.
Therefore, parents should avoid making unilateral decisions and instead seek a collaborative approach or legal guidance.
Well, hopefully this dads fear wont come true and the mom wont take away his daughter.
So, lets hope that this post did exactly this and hell be able to find a resolution.
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