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The love and support of your family can get you through many tough times.
In some cases, though, disagreements with loved ones can actually be the cause of stress and strife.
Ones ownfamilybeing against them is a pop in of trouble thats much harder to deal with.
This is what a woman faced when hertraditionalparents stubbornly opposed her fiance.
They refused to attend her wedding until the couple gave in to their demands.
Unfortunately, neither side budged, and their relationship suffered tremendously.
The OPs father did not budge on his demand either, and thats where the rift began to appear.
Its not easy to understand and heal such complicated family matters.
Thats whyBored Pandareached out toDr.
We also reached out toDr.
Dr. Elaine explained that stubbornness is a no-win situation.
I work a lot withcouplesand have seen it in my work and also clearly in this case.
All of this soured their relationship until the relatives learned that the couple was expecting ababy.
It is also important to find compassion for the other party.
The woman quickly realized that her family wasnt willing to rekindle things or give in that easily.
Rebuilding a bond requires emotional growth and willingness to work towards a resolution.
to make that happen,Dr.
Elaineshared some strategies and said that radical acceptance(R.A.I.N) is a great tool to use.
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