At least thats what some moms say.
At best, thats an awkward joke, right?
Its a giant, flashing neon sign saying she doesnt respect the OPs boundaries.
And, if you think this was a one-off incident, oh boy, youre in for a ride.
On her greatest hits list, the Why are you engaged to her?
moment comes in at number one.
Instead of congratulating her son on hisengagement, this woman decided criticism was a better response.
Then, when she didnt get to pick the bridesdress, she labeled the OP selfish.
The woman really has a knack for turning milestone moments into her personal drama stage, doesnt she?
She even took it up a notch by calling the OPs baby her baby and demanding daily FaceTime access.
And the hospital incident?
Lets just say it was the cherry on her audacity sundae.
So, whats a newmomto do when her mother-in-law completely disregards her emotional state?
Set boundaries, of course.
But enforcing them with family, especially boundary-blind in-laws, can be a hard task.
Well, theprossay its clear, consistent communication.
You shouldnt leave room for interpretation and try not to let guilt or fear of conflict hold you back.
Pro tip: having your partner back you up is the ultimate power move.
But, of course, this mother-in-law wasnt one to take no lightly.
Its sort of a way to gain sympathy and avoid criticism, but it can destroy relationships.
The best way to deal with it?
Dont feed into the drama, and maintain your own boundaries firmly but kindly.
So, where does that leave our OP?
Exhausted and frustrated, but also determined to protect her peace and her baby.
And can you blame her?
