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Life in a blended family can be challenging.
After all, even normal families have their ups and downs.
Keeping everyone happy and feeling included takes a lot of love, compassion, and heaps of commitment.
The step-grandkids in therelationship, however, get nothing.
Whether youre part of a blendedfamilyor not, youve probably experienced some degree of unfair treatment.
In OPs case, her parents blatant favoritism could risk creating resentment in a family already navigating tricky territory.
What should todays step-grandparent be striving for, instead?
We went looking for answers.
Despite these shortcomings, both experts and step-grandparents agree on a few things.
First, discuss expectations with the parents you want to avoid overrunning boundaries, so clear communication is key.
Second, go slowlet your step-grandkids take the lead, and dont expect too much, at first.
Remember, this is new for them, too.
Third, be a grandfriendbeing fun and kind will go a long way to gaining your step-grandkids trust.
Finally, err on the side of generosity when it comes to holidays, treats, and gifts.
Not much chance of that, then.
Bored Pandareached out to psychologistDr.
Mari Kovanento get her take on the matter.
Check out the results:
