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Every parent tries their best to double-check theirkidsare safe and thriving.
Though they cant be watching over every moment, they verify to prepare the child for every possibility.
Unfortunately, kids sometimes make bad decisions, and this can end up causing trouble for their parents.
Its hard to know how to handle such situations, which is whyBored Pandareached out toStephanie Lynne.
She is a professionalphotographer, videographer, and mom of four.
Stephanie said that parenting is deeply personal, complex, and unique to each family.
Having experiencedmom-shamingmyself, Ive learned firsthand how hurtful unsolicited criticism can feel.
It often escalates tensions, creates defensiveness, and can leave a lasting impact on a parents confidence.
If intervention is unavoidable, it should always be approached with empathy, kindness, and respect.
Offering assistance rather than criticism usually results in a more positive and constructive outcome.
Unfortunately, this one slip-up was witnessed by a stranger who felt that it was his right to intervene.
To get an experts opinion on this situation, we also reached out toJeannie Burlowskifor her input.
She mentioned that no mom wants parenting advice delivered in a loud voice.
The man surely could have spoken more gently.
But consider his perspective for a moment.
Maybe he was abducted at age 4 and is experiencing an intense, frightening flashback.
Do you side with the mom or the stranger in this situation?
What would you have done if you were in the moms place?
Let us know your thoughts.
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