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Childhoodshould be all about growing, learning, and having fun.
However, not all parents can afford to provide the stability and resources needed for such a childhood.
Essentially, they become the caregiver to parents or younger siblings.
In the long term, children who were parentified are more likely to struggle with relationships.
They might particularly find it difficult to set boundaries, trust others and avoid unhealthy relationships.
It makes them feel like participants and that the family is working as a team.
They may feel that they have no choice but to pass responsibilities over to their children.
When children feel parentified, they should speak up, but only if they feel safe.
However, they shouldnt feel like they have to do it alone.
A trusted adult or therapist can help them express their feelings and advocate for change.
Parents should also take a step back and evaluate if the tasks theyre giving their child are appropriate.
And if their kid approaches them having issues with this, they should listen, says Dr. Weir.
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