This is the kind of struggle a mom found herself in when her son got engaged to his girlfriend.

Thats why the mom kept debating if she should confront her son over this issue.

He is a licensed clinical professional counselor and a certified Imago relationship therapist.

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We asked the rabbi if the mom should voice her opinion about her future daughter-in-law.

He said that it depends on the jot down ofrelationshipthey have.

He is in love and engaged and probably wont listen anyway.

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If anything, it will cause strife and distance the son.

He said that they need to learn how to let go as they have absolutely no control.

How exactly do you think the mom should proceed in this situation?

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