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Transitioning is an undeniably difficult journey for everyone involved.
Our story today explores a situation where a mother grapples with these complexities.
Ben, born female, transitioned to male at 16 (FtM).
While his parents initially struggled with their sons transition, his dad eventually embraced it.
Sadly, he passed away in an accident before Ben fully transitioned.
This loss further strained the relationship between the author and Ben.
Its essentially a name that is considered dead to them.
While no easy solution exists, communication and empathy are crucial.
The authors desire to hold onto the memory is also understandable.
Their therapist, Sheriff, emphasizes the importance of shared responsibility in navigating this situation.
Its a two-way street, Sheriff explains.
The expert noted that open communication is important.
Discussing feelings and perspectives can lead to creative solutions likeeditingthe photo or finding a less prominent location for display.
The childs discomfort with the photo is valid.
Respecting their boundaries fosters trust and strengthens the relationship.
Finally, Sheriff emphasizes the importance of professional help for both parents and the child during a transition.
Therapists can offer invaluable guidance in navigating the emotional complexities involved and fostering open communication within the family.
