This is the situation a woman found herself in even after being married to her partner for 24 years!
Slowly, she began becoming more brazen and letting herself into their house even when they werent at home.
To get a proper idea of how to deal with such matters,Bored PandacontactedErica Diamond.
She is also a certified life and career coach, as well as a yoga and meditation teacher.
Erica said: First, I want to say that [the posters] feelings are entirely valid.
Its a delicate balance, but its absolutely possible to set boundaries with love and respect.
While their MILs actions likely come from a place of love, they can cross into being intrusive.
As we grow into our own families, the dynamics naturally shift.
Its part of creating your own healthy balance.
So, its obvious that the other womans behavior and these expectations caused problems in the couples marriage.
Its important in such cases to setboundarieswith family members who seem to be overstepping.
Over time, with consistency andkindness, shell likely adjust.
Doing so wont just have a positive impact on the OPs life but also that of her kids.
By doing so, you also modelhealthy relationshipdynamics for your children.
Otherwise, the next best solution is to lock the main door.
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