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Parents-to-behave a lot of things to consider before welcoming a new life into the world.

This couplealso meticulously planned how theirbabysdelivery was going to go since they had a traumatic experience the first time.

However, MIL wasnt exactly satisfied with it as she wasnt included, which caused quite the family drama.

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A birth plan can serve as an anchor to the priorities of the expectant family.

I believe that the earlier these boundaries are set (and enforced!)

the easier it will be going forward!

Pregnant woman in a white dress standing outdoors, holding her belly gently in a peaceful garden setting.

There is no room in a birth plan for someone elses dreams and desires.

If all else fails, usually the hospital staff are great at crowd control!

This means that theyll have to turn them down, even if it might be uncomfortable.

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However, this is the time for good vibes only!

Trust your intuition on this one and only invite those who give you a sense of peace and safety.

These are the most important qualities in a birth entourage, Bykman explains.

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Often, if they feel helpful somewhere else, they are satisfied.

Let them watch the other kids, watch the dog, and clean the nursery.

Get them busy helping and they will hopefully be happily distracted while you labor in peace.

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If all else fails, usually the hospital staff are great at crowd control!

They may be able to assist in clearing out the room if extra people arrive.

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