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Theres really two options when it comes to givingpresents.

Once he finally revealed his plans, she became very upset and even accused him of ruiningChristmas.

This number is quite high compared to other gift givers like colleagues or friends.

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In fact, research shows that a bad gift exchange between couples can hurt their relationship.

She has also found that unwanted gifts can seed doubts about the relationships future in the receivers mind.

Unfortunately, the question What do you want for gifts this year?

Christmas tree with lights and ornaments in a cozy living room, reflecting a thoughtful surprise setting.

Or just venture to avoid purchasing items from the most hated present list.

Some other unhonorable mentions include mousepads, scarves, gym memberships, mugs and iron.

Most readers suggested returning the gifts she bought for his partner

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Comment on a surprise causing tears: “NTA- he wanted to be the hero. Return his gifts and get what you need.

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Text exchange discussing a man’s surprise gift gone wrong, leaving girlfriend upset.