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We all have a clear image in our heads of what a traditional family looks like.
But many children dont have the privilege of living in a two-parent household.
Redditor Jolly_Tooth_7274s husband made a conscious decision to completely cut ties with his biological daughter before meeting her.
The current wife is aware of the whole situation, and he supports the child financially.
But he has never seen her, nor does he plan to.
However, in reality, this isnt always true, especially for fathers.
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 25% ofkidslive without a biological, step, or adoptive father.
Particularly with sons, a breakdown in relationships is often linked to divorce, in-laws, and marriage.
Meanwhile, with daughters, mental health and emotional abuse were the most common causes.
Children will likely question why they were abandoned and, often, will place the blame on themselves.
Children may internalize feelings of being unlovable, unwanted or not good enough.
This can lead to a variety of symptoms, including depression, notes Sanders.
Therefore, having a supportive male figure even if theres no biological connection can be beneficial.
It can be extremely difficult, painful, and isolating.
Parents may struggle with guilt, unworthiness or depression themselves.
Many parents dont have the support they need making them feel like leaving their baby is the only option.
When a recovered relationship isnt in the cards for them Sanders suggests creating healthy bonds with other people.
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