ThisRedditorhad always been open about his dream of starting a family.
His wife never seemed opposedin fact, she often joined in on conversations about their future as parents.
Now, hes unsure if their marriage can survive this.
Read on to see what happened.
Conversations about these plans can be exciting, but one topic often brings hesitationchildren.
Some people avoid the conversation for as long as possible.
They might feel uncomfortable bringing it up or worry about judgment, conflict, or even losing their partner.
Sinai School of Medicine.
If you both are adamant about your stance and wont change your mind, stop dating each other.
Its easier to walk away before you fall in love, she tellsVerywell Mind.
Theres really no middle ground here.
Youd be wasting your time and are better off finding someone with similar goals.
That said, differences over having children arent uncommon in long-termrelationships.
And sometimes, they simplydont want childrenat all.
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