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Trust and respect are fundamental in anyrelationship, but especially in romantic ones.
It can be utterly devastating to learn that your partner constantly fantasizes aboutsleeping withother people.
But in some cases, this can get a whole lot worse.
In other cases, fantasizing happens when someone isnt happy in their relationship or if theyre feeling sexually frustrated.
The only access that they have is in their own mind.
Everyone has romantic fantasies of some sort.
It would be naive to think that they dont.
But their punch in is going to differ from person to person.
Some are more vanilla.
If the couple has wildly different romantic desires, there might be some tension there.
There has to be consent.
Both individuals have to feel comfortable.
Theres also the question of emotional vulnerability and trust at play here.
Ideally, both partners should feel comfortable enough to open up about their romantic desires without feeling judged.
(After all, not everyone plans to go through with their fantasies.)
However, thats easier said than done.
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