Firstly, her husband turned out to be incredibly sloppy and completely unwilling to do anything around the house.
And secondly, the guy compensated for his incompetence in everyday life with a virtuoso ability to manipulate others.
However, lets just take things in order.
More precisely, with the fact that the hubby didnt want to do any at all.
Do you think this helped?
Moreover, recently he suggested, when thekidwas already in bed, to watch a movie together.
The OP was excited but the pile of dishes unwashed by him couldnt help but upset her.
She got up and started washing everything, and the man simply went into the bedroom.
And she decided to ask for advice and support online.
Weaponizing ones own incompetence and shifting the blame to others all this is also present here.
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