The mom was completely flabbergasted by her gall, which pushed her to kick her out of her home.

Assigning a child a nickname without their consent or approval is not ok and could affect the childs self-esteem.

When it comes to giving childrennicknames, experts say that it can be harmless and fun.

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However, this can quickly change depending on the person and their intent.

Caroline Dandasaid that a nickname that highlights akidsnegative traits, especially those related to appearance, is never appropriate.

When assigning a moniker, she believes its important to ensure that the person is okay with it.

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If the person doesnt like being called that nickname, then it clearly shouldnt be used.

Adults should step in to ask other adults to refrain from using the nickname, she said.

For example, telling a friend that they dont like that nickname.

DIL confronts MIL for renaming grandson; family tension over son’s name Elijah.

Nicknames can have different effects on children, said Anderson-Kahl.

A friendly nickname that a child enjoys may make them feel special and included.

However, a mean or teasing nickname can lower a childs self-esteem and even lead to bullying.

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