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Best friends are supposed to have your back, not give a shot to sneak behind it.
Its the kind of situation that makes you wonder if loyalty is just a suggestion for some folks.
Together for 15, theyve built a strong partnership and a family with 4 kids.
Life wasnt just good, it was great.
But, as life often does, a big curveball was thrown the OPs way.
But, out of nowhere, the OPs best friend called her crying.
Sounds innocent enough, right?
Well, not so fast.
And lets just say, they werent planning surprise party logistics.
The messages hinted that something had happened between them.
But what exactly happened?
Had the OPs husband strayed?
Was the best friend trying to make a move?
She attempted to sit on the mans lap and kiss him, not once, but twice.
I guess this bestie wanted a free upgrade from her friends guest room to her husbands lap.
Since then, her apology tour has been in full swing.
She claims she wasnt in the right headspace, made a mistake, and wants to salvage theirfriendship.
But the OP isnt buying it.
If the answer is yes, its important to have an open dialogue with your friend.
Share how their actions affected you and see if theyre willing to engage in honest communication.
We also wanted to understand the red flags that indicate a friend might not be trustworthy.
Pay attention to how you feel around this person, not just what he/she says.
We wanted to know how someone can handle feelings of guilt when ending a long-term friendship.
Paterson explained that its normal to feel conflicted, but giving yourself time to process is crucial.
Paterson believes that while some friendships can recover, it depends on the circumstances.
Mistakes happen, but repeated issues shouldnt be ignored.
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