He is now expecting his fifth kid.
Youll find her thoughts below.
She opened up to Bored Panda that she was disappointed and worried.
Because you cant un-have a child.
You cant take it back, she told Bored Panda.
I always say to my family when they pressure me: Having kids is not like buying a dress.
You cannot trade it or ask for a refund if you decide it doesnt suit you.
A lot of people think childfree people are cold and unfeeling, but that is not true.
Personally, I have considered all sides and decided that its not for me.
So only you’re free to make that decision.
She urged people to stand firm in their beliefs if they feel pressure from their family and society.
If not, thats also fine.
Dont let the bullies and peer pressure win.
This is your life, no one else will live it for you, u/TimeladyA613 said.
You will be the one waking up at 3 a.m. to take care of that child.
You will be attending PTA meetings and nursing fevers…
The relatives and society may not be there.
Not every relationship will work out, and many couples do break up or end up getting divorced.
And it puts into question your life goals.
Being pressured to have children is nothing new in many cultures around the globe.
Then, make the opposite decision and see how you react, too.
Ultimately, the goal isnt for others tofeel goodabout your decision to become a parent or to live childfree.
The goal is for you to feel good about your decision.
Only you could know whats true for you.
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This creates a place from which your child can thrive.
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