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Attending your best friendsweddingcan be almost as exciting as having your own.
But the day can become complicated if your own loved one, or lovedones, arent welcome.
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We were curious about the benefits of being in a poly relationship as well.
A big advantage is just living authentically, being able to fully embrace who you are, Leanne explained.
But polyamory can also be motivated by other things.
But like any relationship, there will be challenges.
And when it comes to poly relationships, Leanne noted that time management can be a struggle for some.
You have to be very on top of things to manage multiple relationships, she says.
Finite resources like time, money and energy can be strained by multiple enmeshed romantic relationships, Rusty noted.
Dealing with social stigma is also something that people in polyamorous relationships face.
A lot of people dont see polyamorous love as real and valid or long lasting and just as committed.
And that creates a lot of vulnerable social situations for polyamorous people.
This distinguishes it from serial monogamy, where you date one person at a time.
Or cheating, where you go behind someones back and have multiple relationships that way, she explained.
Theres no coercion; theres consent.
Everyone is aware and happy with it.
Rusty says she explains polyamorous relationships unabashedly and without shame.
It doesnt matter if anyone approves.
It doesnt matter if anyone understands.
Its not wrong, or bad, or salacious, she shared.
Its super normal and comes naturally, so treat it that way when you speak of it to others.
I dont leave any room for anyone to judge me, and my world is far better for that.
If youd like to learn more about polyamorous relationships, feel free to check out Leannes list ofFAQs.
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