Unfortunately, this at times can mean choosing between a partner and your own child.
Commenters debated the BFs behavior versus her response to it.
This is, perhaps, why so many people thought OP overreacted by kicking the BF and Jake out.
Comments note that kicking out the BF is not a long-term solution, even if they break up.
She cant exactly kick out a child without kicking out his or her parents.
This is where the BF should have stepped up.
In that sense, OP is right to take the actions that she did.
A baby is still quite fragile and causing it to be scared and cry repeatedly is cruel.
Some people wanted more information
Most readers thought OP was defiantly NTA
Thanks!
Check out the results:
