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An unexpected act ofkindnessfrom a random stranger can turn your entire day around.

Perhaps someone stops you as youre exiting an elevator to tell you how beautiful your hair is.

Maybe agood samaritanpulls over to help you change a tire.

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Or a friendly barista decides that your drink is on the house today.

These moments can restore my faith in humanity faster than almost anything else.

Below, youll find thefull story, as well as a conversation with the man who posted it.

Person handing a credit card over a payment terminal, illustrating a pay it forward moment in a store.

That lady is going to heaven.

My car was stuck, and a retired trucker helped me get back on the road.

I asked, How can I pay you back?

Text discussing a “pay it forward” chain at a food cart, questioning etiquette on refusing to continue the gesture.

He laughed and said, Pay it forward!

Thats what its all about!

That will stay with me forever.

Text from story discussing a customer’s reaction to a “pay it forward” situation.

Because of that, Ganbario certainly isnt against showing kindness to strangers.

But this guy at the food cart, this act felt very performative.

I didnt feel like Id been given a gift so much as an obligation.

Text about a customer discussing a “pay it forward” chain and feelings of disappointment in a public setting.

I had received a benefit and the mans disappointment made me feel small and selfish, the author continued.

But thankfully, his worries were assuaged by the replies to his post.

Commenters reassured me that a gift shouldnt come with strings attached, or its no gift at all.

Text excerpt about “pay it forward” philosophy and gratitude exchange.

As the author pointed out, these can be a nightmare for employees to coordinate.

Many workers would actually prefer if customers just end the chain early on.

Not to mention the fact thatsomeonehas to break the chain eventually.

Popcorn in red-striped boxes at a counter, related to “pay it forward” discussion.

Well, many employees would prefer that customers simply give them a generous tip.

In theUnited States, fast food workers earn about$36,749 per year.

Meanwhile, the average salary nationwide is$63,795.

Text block expressing a refusal to continue a pay-it-forward chain due to cost concerns.

Its also a great idea to volunteer at a local charity or donate blood.

And encourage those around you to perform random acts of kindness as well.

Check out the results:

Text expressing skepticism about “pay it forward” chain, noting impact on prices and workers.

Text about declining a pay it forward chain, questioning its impact.

Text asking if refusing to continue a “pay it forward” chain was rude.

Smiling woman pays with a card in a cafe, discussing “pay it forward” chain etiquette.

Barista preparing coffee in a cafe setting, highlighting the pay it forward culture in customer service.

Tip jar filled with coins, representing a pay it forward theme in a blurred background.

Reddit comment discussing if refusing a “pay it forward” chain is rude, mentioning good deeds and impact.

Reddit post listing food items, discussing a “pay it forward” chain in a humorous context.

Reddit comment discussing views on ending a “pay it forward” chain and its impact versus helping those in need.

Reddit comment about refusing a “pay it forward” chain, detailing a retail experience.

Comment discussing reactions to not continuing a pay it forward chain, questioning true generosity.

Text about declining “pay it forward” chain, questioning social obligation versus genuine generosity.

Text comment discussing refusing to continue a pay it forward chain due to large groups purchasing.

Comment on a forum about a customer refusing to continue a pay-it-forward chain, mentioning baristas' preferences.

Comment on refusing to continue a pay-it-forward chain, discussing expectations and intentions.

Reddit comment discussing the obligation of pay it forward chains.

Text response about a customer not continuing a pay-it-forward chain, discussing fairness and guilt.

Text conversation about a customer refusing to continue a pay it forward chain at a coffee shop.

Online comment discussing a “pay it forward” chain and opinions on expectations involved in continuing it.

Reddit comment discussing a customer’s response to ending a “pay it forward” chain.

A comment discussing a customer refusing to continue a pay it forward chain at Starbucks.

Comment discussing refusal to continue “pay it forward” concept, calling it virtue signaling and offering alternative phrasing.

Comment discussing the etiquette of stopping a pay it forward chain.

Text discussion on refusing to continue a pay it forward chain, mentioning obligations and personal Starbucks story.

Reddit comment discussing refusing pay-it-forward chain being rude or not, with user’s cynical perspective.

Customer discusses opinions on keeping a pay it forward chain at a checkout counter.

Reddit comment discussing whether not continuing a pay it forward chain is rude.

Comment on “Pay It Forward” chain, calling it a headache, suggests stopping the nonsense.

Reddit comment on “pay it forward” chain, discussing a possible twist with involved parties.

Reddit comment supporting refusal to continue “pay it forward” chain, suggesting to break it.

Text comment about refusing a “pay it forward” chain, expressing budget concerns.

Reddit comment about a customer declining a “pay it forward” chain in a dining scenario.

Text discussing the reasons for not continuing a pay-it-forward chain due to potential large costs.

Comment discussing refusal to continue a “pay it forward” chain, expressing opposition to the tradition.

Reddit post discussing paying it forward, suggesting buying a coffee instead of paying for a whole family.

Comment discussing the confusion of “pay it forward” chains and suggesting supporting local food banks instead.

Comment discussing a customer not continuing a pay it forward chain, with personal views on the practice.

Comment discussing refusing to continue a pay-it-forward chain, suggesting tipping the underpaid register worker instead.

Text image discussing a popcorn refill and a reaction about a “pay it forward” scenario.

Comment on refusal to continue a “pay it forward” chain, calling them ridiculous.

Reddit comment discussing the concept of “pay it forward” and expressing a viewpoint on its personal impact.

Comment on refusing a pay it forward chain, discussing tipping instead.

Reddit comment criticizing refusal to maintain a pay it forward chain, stating “YTA. It’s a no brainer.”