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Somechoose to remain child-free, and some decide to become parents.
So, when his partner got pregnant again, the man started wondering if she couldve baby-trapped him.
To get an impartial opinion, he told their story online and invited people to share their thoughts.
Finding the right person is not just about being in love and having a great partnership.
Its working toward the same life goals, she said.
Raising kids can, indeed, be very costly.
While Hill says those can be completely valid concerns, something else is often in play.
Theres usually a fear underneath that, and its worth exploring what that fear is.
On the flip side, the partner pushing for more children should also examine their motives.
If I want more kids, Hill said, What is that Im missing out on?
What is it that I may need that Im not getting fulfilled right now?
You should never use a kid to meet your own needs, Hill explained.
Its worth exploring if there are other ways of getting the need met.
So, its better to answer all of the questions sooner rather than later.
Opinion of Psychologist Daniel Hoadley
Sounds a lot like Empty Nest Syndrome.
This is when parents feel lonely or lost as their kids gain independence.
While the urge to have another baby is understandable, it doesnt address the real emotional adjustment needed.
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