Well, thats actually not as helpful as it may sound and may even make things even worse.

After eventually ending things with his awful ex-girlfriend, one Reddit user posted his indirect revenge story.

Knowing that his ex-girlfriend constantly monitors her bank account, he requested that she return a debt.

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After receiving a check, he didnt cash it out, knowing it would make her crazy.

Then he paid for her so that she would come to visit him.

Unfortunately, he shares that these days spent together were not the best.

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

In addition to this, she asked to borrow some money, which he gladly gave her.

Well, only to find out from her son that she was now living with some other guy.

Around a year after this incident, he randomly ran into her at some bar.

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Some of the best revenge is playing the long game and not actually doing anything.

Living rent free in her head for a year, another added.

Jane Greer, who is a marriage and family therapist withBored Panda.

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Luckily, a proactive approach can help mitigate these challenges.

One effective strategy is to maintain a consistent and meaningful connection on a daily basis, Dr. Greer emphasizes.

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check

Man Pays For His GF’s Trip, Finds Out She Cheated, Decides To Worry Her By Not Cashing Her Check