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Marriage is all about finding the right compromises.

Sometimes this ends up requiring some hard conversations.

Cats have a wide range of behaviors and reactions that can be entertaining.

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Theyre nothing like what we see fromdogsand other common pets.

However, many of those behaviors are actually based on negative emotions for the cat.

If you understand whats fueling those behaviors, you find many of those videos upsetting.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

If you dont, it may seem funny to see a cat get puffed up and make crazy sounds.

But thats often a cat in distress.

Thats where the divisive nature of cat content grows, she shared.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

There are so many.

But Id say one of the most damaging is that aggressive cats are entertaining ormisbehaving.

Most aggression comes from fear.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

If a cat is fighting back, theyre in a highly stressed state.

Its not about being mean or bad.

Something has them feeling like they need to defend and protect themselves.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

After all, cats are intelligent creatures, if perhaps a bit selfish.

Actually receiving the food is exactly what reinforced and rewards this behavior.

Theyre part of my family and my career.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

My relationship with cats has changed considerably since I was young.

I used to see my cats as living in my world.

They were everything to me.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

But they should follow my rules and live my way.

I didnt understand what they needed and why.

I wasnt respecting their instinctual needs.

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

I didnt know how to read their body language.

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Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum

Man Loses Patience Over Wife’s “Frustratingly Annoying” Cat, Gives Her An Ultimatum