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Surrogacy is a major decision in any persons life.
Usually, when someone looks for surrogacy candidates, its because they areinfertileand cannot get pregnant themselves.
He then turned to the internet for their verdict on whether or not he handled things well.
Warning: this story may be incredibly triggering for some readers who have had a traumatic past.
Its definitely not something to be undertaken lightly.
According to Investopedia, a surrogatecan costupwards of $100,000 in the United States.
Without it, the foundation of trust theyve built over the years can get wobbly.
Case in point, the authors sister wasnt entirely truthful with him about her intentions at the very beginning.
It turns out my sister is not infertile.
And on someone elses dime, no less!
The only question is how to say no and enforce those boundaries.
How you say something matters just as much, if not more, than what you say.
According to the author, he doesnt feel guilty about how he called out his sister.
However, his wife believes that he could have handled the situation slightly more diplomatically.
This is why he asked for the r/AITAH online communitys opinion in the first place.
Heres their interpretation of the situation
However, some folks had slightly unpopular opinions.
They thought that the author could have handled things very differently
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