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Many people spend a lot of time at the office.
So its only natural that a few bonds will be formed, whether theyre romantic or platonicrelationships.
Some even have awork wifeor husband.
A special someone who has become their ride-or-die from 9-5.
This person is usually just a close friend and colleague.
But there are times when the lines get blurred.
And things get messy.
Like when one personfounda half-naked pic of their partner in a sauna with an alleged work spouse.
The partner was meant to be on a work retreat but meta data doesnt lie.
Even when people do.
The person is now freaking the F out, especially since their partner is denying doing anything wrong.
Randall has loads of experience when it comes to how colleagues should conduct themselves around each other.
She says its now known as the platonic intimacy developed between colleagues, typically between a male and female.
We asked Randall flat-out whether she believes the partners story or if theres something fishy going on.
My gut says, somethings up between the partner and J,' said the expert.
For me, the reason is clear.
And that is the lack of discussion.
Their standard staunch reply, youreparanoid and lack of concern to ease your mind.
Why are they opposed to calmly providing you with more details?
My bed is not big enough for two wives, Randall quipped bluntly.
With regards to the person raising the issue of cultural differences, Randall says those are real.
Initially, when were in a new relationship or younger, we dont think about them.
Perhaps its influenced by our surroundings, she says, but its an individual trait.
Heres what she would say to the person who found the photo…
I understand that you have time invested in thisrelationship, and may feel dependent and alone in their country.
Randall added that if the situation isaffecting the persons well-being ormental health, they have a few choices.
Better yet, surprise them, suggested Randall.
But kindly note that some workplaces do not permit visitors without an appointment.
Share your thoughts with your partner and follow through.
If youre planning to confront your partner about their work spouse, Randall suggests you pause first.
Before showing up at your spouses workplace to claim your title, talk.
A simple plan to express your opinion and preference regarding the relationship.
But Randall says sometimes the problem doesnt actually lie with your partner.
Are you jealous when they talk to the restaurant host too long?
Do you track them when they go to the market?
Do you often go through their phone to see-what-you-can-find?
If so, then maybe, just maybe, its not the work spouse relationship, its you.
Isnt that what loving respectful partners do for one another?
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