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Bullieshave no place in society.
Unfortunately, theyre everywhere: schools, workplaces, even the government.
It was a predicamentthis womanfaced whena neighborfiled a nonsensical complaint to get her mother fined and scare them off.
As the author said, it may have been his way to attempt to intimidate them.
But why do people resort to such behavior?
According to psychiatrist and educatorDr.
Benjamin Cheyette, its a regression to coping mechanisms as children.
Dr. Cheyette adds that these stress reactions are the reason why adult bullying goes unnoticed.
But what exactly are these stressors that push people into bullying others?
Richa Bhatiapoints to deep-rooted shame and a sense of inadequacy.
For some people, it may also be a result of substance abuse, personality disorders, and envy.
It was quite a serious accusation, and the mother could have faced a hefty fine.
This is where having backup documents is necessary.
As communication coachPreston NitellsCNN, it works as an effective strategy for bullies in the workplace and outside.
Ni also advises picking your battles.
As he explained, it takes time and effort to handle a bully.
He urges an engage, then disengage approach if the bullying is infrequent.
The author took the necessary steps toestablish boundaries, and it was effective.
Most commenters lauded the woman for what she did
