But as Reddit userCapital_Manager_7070s story shows, getting engaged does not guarantee a happily ever after.
One they had picked for her.
But when the womans fiance talked so negatively about her, he did the exact opposite.
When someone speaks negatively about us, we tend to feel hurt, angry, defensive, and resentful.
Furthermore, complaining about your partner to others influences how people perceive them.
In this case, we cant ignore that the grooms family has covered 75% of the expenses.
You have to honor their part in the wedding.
In a perfect world, that doesnt become anything grand.
(If people can foresee that happening, they may want to consider taking care of the expenses themselves.
Start by talking openly about what it means to contribute financially to a wedding, sheexplained.
Chances are, they havent even thought about this consciously.
But of course, its easy for us to talk after the fact.
Eventually, she decided to call the whole thing off
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