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Relationshipscan be weird.

The fiancee, unfortunately, carried baggage from a cheating ex, which translated into deep-seated insecurities.

The OP genuinely cared for her and believed their love was strong enough to build a future on.

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After all, he knew where her fears came from and tried to accommodate them as best he could.

To reassure her, as always, he shared his hotel details before leaving.

It was part of their dynamic to ease her anxiety.

Man proposing with a ring, placing it on a woman’s finger in a romantic setting.

A couple of days in, there was a knock on the door.

His fiancee had flown out, excited to see him.

While he masked his shock, his sister was quietly fuming.

Text on a breakup after a woman crashes fiancé’s family vacation, noting a planned December wedding.

The rest of the vacation was tense.

If these behaviors continue unchecked, they can break down the relationship over time.

What do you think about this situation?

Text image about fiancé’s insecurity and mistrust due to past relationship cheating experience.

Do you think a partner should always be included in family traditions, or are some boundaries okay?

We would love to know your thoughts!

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