So this is why its best to at least discuss who does what and when.
To be fair, its nearly impossible to actually split all the chores perfectly in half.
A lot of this behavior is learned.
And over time, that imbalance can lead to serious resentment.
But thats not a pass.
Its about attention, not ability.
In relationships, shared space means shared effort.
Ultimately, refusing to participate equally in household chores isnt about incompetence, its about priorities and accountability.
Relationships function best when both partners show up, not just emotionally or financially, but practically.
This is generally a bad look even when ones complaints are more legitimate.
Its a pretty embarrassing look.
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