The only salvation is that, hopefully, they dont live with you.

Plus, most people also prefer optimism and are willing to give their newfound family a chance.

However, this doesnt mean that things are easy.

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One immediate difficulty is that developing a relationship with your in-laws often means braving uncharted waters.

These are the sorts of pitfalls that do, ultimately, spark a good degree of family drama.

However, its fair to say that most people would probably not be able to pull off this strategy.

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Secrets, even if well intentioned, dont really help strengthen a relationship.

There is research to suggest thatdistanceis ultimately healthy for families, but deception is not.

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