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Its one thing to have aparentleave you for their affair partner.

That in and of itself brings unbearable pain.

Not receiving anysupportfrom them throughout your life is the vinegar doused to that open wound that never fully heals.

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The manin todays story experienced that ordeal with his father, whom he describes as a deadbeat.

The authorrefusedwithout batting an eye, only to be berated.

He now wonders if his response was too harsh.

Elderly man in hospital gown sitting on bed in a hospital room.

Sons, on the other hand, experience stunted maturity, according to studies.

In a paper published inBiology Letters, researchers found that boys abandoned by their dads around 16 matured later.

That includes grasping the concept of maturity.

Man Begs Son To Take Care Of His “Affair Family,” Gets A Harsh Reality Check

But is he obligated to reconnect with his father, who abandoned him, let alone the affair family?

Psychologist and parental estrangement expertDr.

Joshua Colemansays this is not necessarily the case unless the dad takes responsibility.

Text recounting a deadbeat father evading child support, with grandparents assisting.

As the abandoned child, knowing your boundaries also matters.

However, he is in no way obligated to provide any assistance to his fathers family.

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Text on inheritance promise related to a deadbeat father.

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Text about a father reaching out for reconciliation after a cancer diagnosis.

Text discussing a refusal to care for a father’s affair family, even on his deathbed.

Text describing inheritance and deadbeat father’s affair family’s lack of estate claim.

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Text message conversation about refusing to assist father’s affair family.

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Reddit comment discussion about taking care of a deadbeat father’s affair family.

Reddit exchange discussing a sick sister in context of a family issue with a deadbeat father.

Text post discussing refusing care for father’s affair family after his death, with NTA response and 10.8k points.

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Comment with 37 points stating, “YTA. How can you be so heartless?” discussing refusal to care for a father’s affair family.

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